Gary Brodsky – Whipped

Description Of Whipped

This Audio program is the cure.

There is one affliction within the realm of male friendship that provokes such incredible anguish and futile resistance that it cannot possibly be summarily described in a single sentence. It is unrecognized by physicians as a formal disease, and it has no medicinal cure. This disorder’s symptoms include, but are not limited to: increased heart rate, irrational decision making, loss of self, extreme emotional pain, and loss of personality and/or will to live, and increased estrogen in males and complete loss of all joy. If you haven’t already guessed it by now, we are talking about being “pussy-whipped.

Beware the signs this is pussy whipping

However, over the last 5 years more and more of my clients are consulting me with so-called relationships that they supposedly must have at any cost even though the woman is (consciously or not) systematically attacking their masculinity, libido of these guys and causing long term symptoms of depression and self loathing.

This is serious! Because the more these guys rack their brains using logic to resolve these problems, the deeper they sink into quicksand.

First and foremost you must understand that there is absolutely nothing logical about love, lust, being seduced and the art of romance. Logic can only be used as a tool to get her turned on.

Think about this for a moment. When you see a beautiful woman…..there is no logic involved. You see her, get turned on and desire……which is a feeling (not a thought) drives what you do or want to do next. When emotions run high, there is a window of opportunity and you either strike when it’s hot or lose it till next time, if there is a next time……but each opportunity you let pass, makes next time less likely. Nine out of ten times, emotions will win over logic because both men and women just love the feeling of being in love!

Are you in love (or lust) or just in love with the idea of being in love? Unless you can answer this question, you are headed for total and complete destruction.

Let’s check out the warning signs: Sound familiar?

1) It is hard to pin her down to specifics of any kind – a date, plans for future events, how she feels, what she has been doing or thinking. If you press the issue she withdraws, and suggests that perhaps it would be best to end things completely. What do most men do? Out of fear, most men back off and let her establish the rules of the relationship. Big mistake! You’ve got one foot in quicksand already.

2) She makes dates and shows up late with ever changing excuses, or she forgets to show up at all. Of course you Mr. nice guy are always there on time. Occasionally, when she forgets, she may have forgotten so completely that if you never mentioned the broken date it probably would have escaped her memory all together. Clearly, you are no longer central in her consciousness. Wake up! This is rude, inconsiderate behavior. Are you sure she’s really your dream girl or date?

3) She does not remember the small nuances or subtleties of your preferences; your habits, schedule and issues of importance to you. You on the other hand seem to remember every detail of hers be it food preferences, names of friends and family; and long to know more, yet she seems oblivious to personal matters in your life that you have told her about. Your feelings are constantly being hurt by this however, if you mention it to her she responds with annoyance over your spoiled little boy expectations. A typical response might be something like “don’t expect me to think of everything. I am not your mother.”

If she really cared like you do, she’d want to know and remember important things to you. People, who care, want to please you. They want to make you happy.

4) On the rare occasion when she tells you that she really cares about you or that she loves you, you get a feeling of euphoria. If in a romantic moment on the telephone she expresses emotion for you and you respond with a request to be with her right away or even very soon she will probably have an excuse why that will be impossible. If this is a pattern (not a rare occurrence) how do you really think she feels about you.

You can turn the tables–waste no time

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