Beducated – De-Armouring for Couples: Healing Your Partner with Touch

About This Course

Forge a deeper bond with your partner through De’an Matuka’s De-armouring for Couples. This video course helps you understand the importance of intimacy to effectively practice touch.

Your Struggles, Solved

Stored tension in your body creates barriers to intimacy. De-armouring removes these blocks, allowing for deeper connection through intentional touch.

You’re likely facing:

• Emotional Barriers – Past experiences have created physical tension that blocks intimacy, preventing true vulnerability with your partner.
• Disconnection During Intimacy – Even during closeness, you feel a sense of holding back, unable to fully surrender to pleasure and connection.
• Limited Tools for Healing – You lack effective techniques to help your partner release stored emotions and physical tension safely.

This course teaches you how to create a safe space for vulnerability through intentional touch. You’ll learn specific de-armouring techniques to release tension patterns that block intimacy. By practicing these methods, couples often experience deeper emotional connection, more relaxed physical intimacy, and renewed trust in their relationship.

What You Will Learn

“De-armouring creates a safe space for vulnerability, allowing partners to release stored tension and emotional blocks that prevent deep, authentic connection.”

— De’an Matuka, De-armouring Specialist

Creating a Safe Healing Space

• Trust-Building Techniques – Establish emotional safety through specific communication practices that encourage vulnerability and openness.
• Consent & Boundary Protocols – Learn structured approaches to respecting limits while creating space for release of stored emotions and tension.

Physical De-armouring Methods

• Targeted Pressure Techniques – Apply precise touch to release specific tension patterns in your partner’s body, unlocking greater physical freedom.
• Progressive Release Sequences – Guide your partner through gradual tension dissolution using rhythmic, responsive touch patterns.

Emotional Integration

• Emotional Release Support – Develop skills to compassionately hold space when your partner experiences emotional release during physical de-armouring.
• Post-Session Connection – Learn how to maintain and deepen the new emotional openness achieved through your de-armouring practice.

By the end of this course, you’ll confidently facilitate healing touch sessions that dissolve physical tension patterns, allowing both partners to experience deeper intimacy and connection.

Lessons and Classes
Total length:90-180 min

1. Introduction to Couples De-Armouring
2. Importance of Intimacy
3. What is Sympathy vs. Empathy
4. The Importance of Working From the Heart
5. How to Use Talk Therapy to Connect
6. Setting Up Your Space
7. The Importance of Body Posture and Body Contact
8. Opening the Spine
9. Sensitizing Fingers and Working With Universal Energy
10. Working With the Elements
11. Connecting Energy Lines in De-Armouring
12. Sushumna Demonstration
13. Protection from Negative Energy
14. I Am Presence
15. Prayer During Session

Your Instructor

De’an Matuka
Dearmouring Practitioner & Healer

As the pioneering co-founder of Dearmouring Arts, De’an Matuka has spent over a decade developing his signature Pain Body Release System, which combines Wilhelm Reich’s body armor theory with traditional Tantric practices and modern somatic therapy. His trauma-informed approach to releasing physical tension has made him a sought-after instructor at major festivals and retreats worldwide.

De’an’s journey into de-armouring began when he discovered the profound connection between stored trauma and physical tension in his own body. “The body remembers what the mind tries to forget” became his guiding truth as he experienced firsthand how intentional touch could dissolve emotional barriers he’d carried for years. This personal transformation inspired him to develop accessible techniques that help couples break through intimacy blocks that other modalities couldn’t address.

De’an’s teaching methodology uniquely balances “soft” invitational techniques with “deep” intensive work, always prioritizing ethical, consent-based touch. His warm, grounded style creates a safe container for exploring vulnerable territory, making profound somatic healing accessible to everyone—not just healing professionals. This course shares techniques previously available only in his exclusive in-person trainings.

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