Perrin Elisha – Love Thyself

The Love Thyself Course: ReWiring the Self for Love

Prepare for Secure Bonds Become an Extraordinary Partner

Learn from licensed psychologist and psychoanalyst:

Perrin Elisha, Ph.D.

Psychologist, author and founder of Depth Therapy and Relationships ReWired

Discover the science-based, heart-centered Relationship Map that takes you from loneliness, heartbreak, fear or divorce… to the confidence and clarity to succeed in love.

What Does It Mean To Love Yourself?

I know you want to be a mature partner and to feel confident in your relationship choices to bond and grow through your life.

You know that you need to “love yourself first” to feel confident in the world of dating, relationships and marriage.

But what does it mean to “love yourself”?.

It means being able to digest and narrate your attachment history,

And it means developing a healthy attitude towards and relationship with your own emotional life.

Maybe you saw your parents, other marriages, and your own relationships be hit or miss. Often failing, tragically, with grave consequences. And now you may feel afraid to get into a real relationship, for fear of getting hurt, or failing.

If This Is You, You’re Not Alone

No one taught you the truth about how relationships work – what doesn’t work, how to avoid constant conflict or resentment or loneliness in relationships. Think about it, relationships are the most important and likely most complex area of life and yet we receive NO education about how they work or how to prepare for one.

Here’s The Great News

Once you discover the science-based principles of bonding, and develop the skills to heal from past trauma, then you can approach relationships with a real map.

When you have mastered your own attachment history, you’ll be equipped to approach dating, relationships, and even conflict with respect and grace.

When someone tells their partner to “go to therapy,” they usually mean to do this particular work.

With this new map, you’ll no longer be wandering aimlessly around in the dark; and you can go forward with the peace that you HAVE done your own work!

That’s why I created ReWiring the Self, the first online, experiential course that will guide you through your identity, a healthy relationship to your emotions, and your past.

My promise to you is that you will get the clarity and confidence to navigate your relationship world, unshackling you from your past.

You will feel at peace knowing that our true nature is relatedness, and that you can express your nature freely, respectfully and honestly in a balanced partnership, in parenthood and in friendships.

By the end of this course, you will feel confident in knowing that you can have a life in which solid, secure, creative relationships are the foundation and in abundance.

In this Love Thyself program you will:

• Develop the skills to manage your own emotional life, replacing confusion, shame, guilt and fear with understanding, responsibility and compassion
• Discover how to clarify and strengthen your identity and self respect.
• Discover an approach to the masculine and feminine principles in any relationship
• Understand what you need to know about Attachment Theory, your attachment style, and how to use an understanding of attachment style to manage dating and loving.
• How to transform your past from an obstacle into a doorway to your ultimate relationship future.

Here’s What You’ll Learn

• In this course you will develop your Relationship Map, like a map with topographic layers.
• You will lay the foundation with the research-based principles that govern emotional life and bonding.
• You will layer your individual history, needs and dreams onto this map in a way that is personal to you and to the person you choose to connect with.
• This map allows for you to heal what needs to be healed and enter into a bond that is set up to succeed!

Module 1: Who Am I?
We begin with a healthy YOU! This section looks at the question “who am I,” to develop a healthy sense of identity from multiple dimensions that builds a healthy foundation to enter partnership.

Here you will discover:

• How to define and integrate the unconscious aspects of your identity
• How to define your core values
• How to develop a stable yet flexible and cohesive identity
• The key to processing your emotional life in a constructive manner
• A foundation for navigating the masculine and feminine within yourself and within a partnership
• A roadmap for navigating addictions in yourself or a partner

Module 2: Know Your Story
I will guide you through an exploration of navigating your personal attachment (bonding) history. You will learn how your own story allows for the establishment of secure bonds. We cannot establish secure, thriving bonds if we do not digest our own history!

Here you will discover:

• The fundamental predictor that IS in your control to determine your relationship future.
• Why your attachment history does NOT predict your relationship future
• What is SHAME and how to avoid a cancerous takeover of shame in your inner world!
• How to discern your and a potential partner’s attachment style, and how to use that information to set a real foundation in any relationship.
• Why Insight makes change and evolution of your personality Easy!

About Perrin Elisha, Ph.D.

Dr. Elisha is a psychologist and psychoanalyst – meaning that she has the most in-depth training available – to treat the whole of a personality, getting to the root of relational difficulties and healing one’s identity.

She has worked for more than two decades in mind-body integration and relational wellness for her patients in private practice: Depth Therapy. Through this work she has distilled a fundamental wisdom about the relational nature that underlies wellbeing and life satisfaction, and has helped thousands of people to heal their past wounds and manifest the future they deserve.

She is the author of The Conscious Body and has taught postgraduate courses for many years throughout Southern California. She currently lives and works in Aspen, Colorado with her family and extended family.

Her deep understanding of how attachment relationships shape our feelings about ourselves, the world, and our expectations about relationships can help YOU excel in intimate relationships.

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